Nā Pāʻani Makua Pūnaewele
ʻAʻole pili ka pili kolohe no ka mea aia kekahi mea no kēlā me kēia. Hiki i nā pāʻani mākua pūnaewele ke kamaʻilio like me kou makemake a i ʻole hiki ke koi ʻia i kahi mea liʻiliʻi loa mai ka mea pāʻani. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopili i nā kaha kāne a pololei paha a me nā huapalapala transgender.
Hiki ke maʻalahi ke ʻano o nā pāʻani e like me ke kāhiko ʻana i kahi ʻano kamepiula a me ka launa pū ʻana me nā mea ʻē aʻe a i ʻole hiki ke hoʻopili i ka moekolohe ma nā kūlana like ʻole inā koho nā mea pāʻani e hana pēlā. Hiki i nā pāʻani mākua pūnaewele ke hoʻopili pū i ka pilina maoli me nā kānaka maoli a me ka pāʻani ʻana i ke kamepiula. Makemake paha kekahi poʻe e pāʻani kūʻē i ke kamepiula no kahi pāʻani paʻa hou aʻe. Ma kēlā me kēia ala, hāʻawi nā pāʻani mākua pūnaewele i kahi ala hou e hui ai a me ka lā kanaka me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pono hou aʻe ma o ka launa ʻana i ka pāʻani ponoʻī a i ʻole ma o nā lumi kūkā kamaʻilio a me nā blog e pili ana iā ia. ʻO ka moekolohe kahi ʻāpana o ka hoʻohālikelike inā makemake ka mea pāʻani. Hiki i nā kāne ke ʻoluʻolu i ka moekolohe koke inā makemake lākou a hiki i nā wahine ke hoʻolohi inā ʻo ia ka mea a lākou e makemake ai e hana.
ʻAe kekahi mau pāʻani iā ʻoe e komo i kāu ʻano kamepiula i ka pāʻani mākua pūnaewele i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻAe kēia i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā pilina a me nā lauana. Hiki i nā pāʻani mākua pūnaewele ke hoʻāʻo i nā kahua no ka honua maoli. ʻOiai ʻo nā pāʻani makua ma ka pūnaewele ʻaʻole hoʻololi i nā mea hana pilikino ʻē aʻe i hiki i nā kānaka ke hoʻohana i kēia mau pilina e kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi a i ʻole e uku no nā wā kū hoʻokahi o ka mehameha. Hiki i nā hāmeʻe i ke ao o ka pāʻani pūnaewele ke hoʻolālā i kahi ʻano paʻa kahi e hiki ai i nā mea pāʻani ke manaʻo palekana, māʻona a me ka kaohi. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā makemake lākou e ʻike i kahi honua i hoʻolālā ʻole ʻia, kahi e hana ʻole ʻia ai a laila hiki i ka wahi nui o nā pāʻani mākua pūnaewele ke hāʻawi i kēlā hoʻonohonoho.
Loaʻa nā pōmaikaʻi o nā pāʻani mākua pūnaewele i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o nā pilina i hoʻomohala ʻia he noncommittal. ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke koi ʻia e hana i kekahi mea a lākou e makemake ʻole ai a hiki i ka leʻaleʻa ke loaʻa ma waho o kahi pilina koʻikoʻi a i ʻole uniona. Pāʻani wale kekahi i ka lōʻihi o kona makemake. ʻAʻole pono kēia mau pāʻani makua pūnaewele i hope loa no ka poʻe hiki ʻole ke moe kolohe i ke ola maoli e like me ka ʻōlelo a kekahi poʻe loiloi. Ma kahi o, nui nā kāne e ʻumeʻume nei ma ke ʻano he ala hou e hōʻike ai iā lākou iho a me ko lākou mau makemake, hoʻohana kekahi i ka cybersex ma ke ʻano he koho ʻē aʻe i ka hoʻopunipuni maoli a ʻo nā poʻe ʻē aʻe hoʻi e hoʻohana ia mea e hoʻomāhuahua ai i kahi ola moekolohe e noho nei.
Hoʻopiʻi nā pāʻani mākua pūnaewele i nā poʻe o nā ʻano like ʻole i ke ola. Nui a hewahewa nā ʻano a me nā koho i hiki ʻole i kekahi ke luʻuluʻu me kēia mea ulu. Ke kānalua nei kekahi o nā mea hoʻohana pūnaewele akā ʻaʻole ʻeha ke nānā a hoʻāʻo paha i hoʻokahi. ʻAʻohe ou mea e lilo a nui a leʻaleʻa paha e loaʻa.