Masewera Ophunzitsa Makhalidwe Patebulo otchedwa MannerIsms

Masewera pamakhalidwe

Kodi pali amene adaganizapo kuti pakhoza kukhala masewerawa ophunzitsira ana mayendedwe patebulo panthawi yazakudya kuti athe kuwonetsa miyambo yabwino maphwando ndikutsatiranso zomwezo kunyumba. Chabwino kwa anthu omwe sanadziwepo kale, ndikutsimikiza kuti adzadabwa ndikusangalala kudziwa kuti masewera oterewa alipo mdziko la masewera. Masewerawa adatchedwa MannerIsms. M’malo mwake, masewerawa ndi a banja lonse, koma makamaka kwa ana ndi ana nawonso amasangalala nawo akamaphunzira chikhalidwe choyambirira patebulo nthawi yachakudya.

Ndiye, masewerawa adayamba bwanji? Roz Heintzman, mayi waku Toronto adazindikira usiku wina koyambirira kwa 2004 pomwe anali kunyumba kwa mnzake Gillian Deacon kukadya chakudya chamadzulo kuti mnzake ali ndi njira yapadera yophunzitsira ana ake ulemu - momwe amafunsira ana ake kuti azichita mwaulemu envelopu ndikuwatsata, imodzi usiku uliwonse. Izi zidapangitsa kudzoza kwa MannerIsms. Roz Heintzman limodzi ndi wochita bizinesi Carolyn Hynland (komanso waku Toronto), adayamba kuyang’ana kuti athetse mpata pamsika pazinthu zonse zokhudzana ndi ulemu - makamaka ulemu ndi ana. Pambuyo pofufuza pamsika mwamwayi, bizinesi idapangidwa ndipo, mothandizidwa ndi abwenzi komanso abale, masewerawa adakwaniritsidwa.

Momwe imasewera

Kodi masewerawa amasewera bwanji? Bokosi limodzi la MannerIsms limabwera ndi makhadi makumi awiri ndi asanu, iliyonse ili ndi kakhalidwe kamodzi. Chilichonse ndichokoma, chosangalatsa, komanso chosavuta kukumbukira, monga ‘Chakudya pakamwa, osati pakamwa ndi chakudya. Mwanjira imeneyi, simudzawoneka amwano. ‘. Wina ndi ‘Mabel, Mabel ngati mungathe, sungani zigongono zanu patebulo!’. Imaseweredwa usiku angapo ndipo usiku uliwonse, ana am’banja mwanu amatenga khadi yatsopano kuchokera muluwo ndikudya ndikumakwaniritsa. Kutengera zaka ndi kuchuluka kwa ana omwe akusewera, MannerIsms imapereka njira zingapo zopezera ulemu. Ndipo mutha kupititsa patsogolo masewerawa ku banja lanu.

Pamasewerawa, tiyerekeze kuti ana anu akulimbikitsidwa ndi mphotho, yesani kumata zomata m’makhadi omwe akwaniritsidwa bwino. Ngati ana anu amakonda mpikisano pakati pawo, mutha kupanga mapindu, monga kukhala ndi mwana yemwe nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito njira yausikuyo kusankha khadi usiku wotsatira. Muthanso kusewera mobwerezabwereza, kuti mwana wanu (ren) ayang’anire mayendedwe am’mbuyomu ndikusunga pepala.

Masewera amachepetsa kukakamira

Masewerawa amatulutsa chizolowezi pophunzitsa mayendedwe apatebulo. Ndichikumbutso kwa makolo kuti adziwe momwe amakhalira. Amayi ena amavomereza kugula masewerawa mochuluka kwambiri kwa amuna awo. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kwa ana kuti nawonso agwire makolo awo molakwika.

gulu lopanga masewerawa nthawi zonse limayesetsa kuwongolera polandira malingaliro monga ngati pali machitidwe ena omwe anthu angafune kuti aphatikizidwe, kapena ngati banja lanu labwera ndi njira yatsopano yolembera kapena kutsatira momwe ana anu akuyendera.

MannerIsms idapangidwa ndi makolo ndi ana, kwa makolo ndi ana. Nthawi yotsatira mukakhala patebulo la chakudya chamadzulo ndi banja lanu kapena anzanu, mutha kulingalira kuyesa masewerawa odabwitsa, ophunzitsa komanso osangalatsa.