Kutheni i-Poker Emotional?
I-Poker idlalwa kwiindawo zokungcakaza ezikwiqondo lokuzonwabisa kunye nolonwabo. Kodwa umdlali we-poker oqeqeshiweyo akufuneki achaphazeleke kwezo zinto okanye uxinzelelo lwakhe lunokuthotywa, kwaye kwitafile ye-poker, kungcono ungathotyelwa.
I-Poker yenye yeyona midlalo yekhasino inomdla kwaye inomdla, ngenxa yento yabantu. Into eyenza ukuba i-poker ibe ‘ngumdlalo wabantu’ yinto yeemvakalelo ekwindlela yokudlala ekwabizwa ngokuba ‘bubuso be-poker’.
Ixesha ‘lobuso be-poker’ lisetyenziswa kwezinye iindawo ezininzi zobomi, kodwa imvelaphi yalo iphuma kwitafile ye-poker, apho abadlali benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuba bangavezi umgangatho wezandla zabo. Ukomelela kwesandla sakho kunokutyhilwa ziimvakalelo zalo eziboniswa ngezenzo ezityholwayo ezilula ezinje ngoku: ukubonakala kobuso, ukushukuma kwezandla ngokukhawuleza nokubila.
Ngokwendalo, abantu baneempendulo ezahlukeneyo kwiimeko ezifanayo, kodwa imeko efunekayo yokuchongwa kwitafile ye-poker isisiseko esisisiseko: ngaba umdlali unesandla esomeleleyo okanye hayi. Umntu unokujonga ezo nkcazo kunye nemeko kwindawo yokungcakaza ekwi-intanethi okanye enye yeencwadi ebhaliweyo ngalo mbandela, kodwa xa umntu eyazi impendulo kuloo nto, ngokuqinisekileyo usendleleni elungileyo.
Into esiyisekisileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kukuba amandla okuqala eemvakalelo kukufihla ezona mvakalelo zakho zisetafileni. Ngoku sifikelela kubuchule besibini obunemvakalelo. Akwanelanga ukuba ungazifihla ezakho iimvakalelo, kuyafuneka ukuba ufunde indlela yokufunda iimvakalelo zomchasi wakho.
Akukho nto ifana nesandla esomeleleyo okanye iveki, kodwa yomelele kwaye ineveki. Imbali ye-poker yobungcali ibonise ukuba kwezinye iimeko ungaphumelela umdlalo kunye nesibini, okoko nje abachasi bakholelwa ukuba unesandla esomeleleyo. Umdlalo awunqunywanga ngesandla sakho kodwa oko omnye umdlali acinga ngako.
Andiqondi ukuba nabani na angangumdlali we-poker olungileyo kuba unomdla ngokweemvakalelo kwaye ufuna umgangatho osisiseko onokuba unawo okanye awunayo. Kodwa nalo mgangatho kufuneka uphuhliswe kwaye wolulwe kude kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Isitshixo sokuphucula izakhono zakho zeemvakalelo, njengayo yonke enye into, ifihliwe ekusebenzeni kunye nokuninzi kwayo.
Akukho mntu uzelwe njengomdlali we-poker olungileyo, kodwa umntu ngokuqinisekileyo unokuba ngomnye, emva kokuziqhelanisa kakhulu. Kodwa ungazi njani xa sele wenze ngokwaneleyo? Kulula-awusoze uziqhelanise ngokwaneleyo.