Umdlalo wemikhuba

Ngabe ukhona owake wacabanga ukuthi kungaba khona umdlalo wokufundisa imikhuba yetafula ezinganeni ngezikhathi zokudla ukuze bakwazi ukubonisa izinhlonipho ezingcono zomphakathi emicimbini futhi balandele okufanayo nasekhaya. Kulungile kubantu abangakaze bahlangane nayo ngaphambili, ngineqiniso lokuthi bazomangala futhi bajabule ukwazi ukuthi umdlalo onjalo ukhona emhlabeni wokudlala. Umdlalo unegama elithi MannerIsms. Eqinisweni, lo mdlalo ungowomndeni wonke, kepha ikakhulukazi izingane nezingane ziwujabulela nawo ngenkathi zifunda isiko eliyisisekelo etafuleni ngezikhathi zokudla.

Ngakho-ke, umdlalo waba khona kanjani? URoz Heintzman, owesifazane waseToronto wabona ngobunye ubusuku ekuqaleni kuka-2004 ngenkathi esemzini kamngani wakhe uGillian Deacon esidlweni sakusihlwa ukuthi umngani wakhe unendlela eyingqayizivele yokufundisa izingane zakhe imikhuba - lapho ecela izingane zakhe ukuthi zikhiphe imikhuba imvilophi bese ubalandela, eyodwa ubusuku ngabunye. Lokhu kubona kwaholela ekukhuthazekeni kwe-MannerIsms. URoz Heintzman kanye nosomabhizinisi uCarolyn Hynland (naye waseToronto), baqala ukufuna ukuvala isikhala emakethe ngazo zonke izinto eziphathelene nemikhuba - ikakhulukazi imikhuba nezingane. Ngemuva kocwaningo oluthile olungakahleleki lwezimakethe, uhlelo lwebhizinisi lwasungulwa futhi, ngosizo lwabangane nomndeni, umdlalo i-MannerIsms waphila.

Idlalwa kanjani

Udlalwa kanjani lo mdlalo? Ibhokisi elilodwa le-MannerIsms liza namakhadi angamashumi amabili nanhlanu, ngalinye linekhodi elilodwa lokuziphatha. Ngayinye imnandi, inamaculo, futhi kulula ukuyikhumbula, njengokuthi ‘Ukudla emlonyeni, hhayi umlomo ekudleni. Ngale ndlela, ngeke ubonakale udelela. ‘. Enye ithi ‘Mabel, Mabel uma ukwazi, susa izindololwane zakho etafuleni!’. Idlalwa ngochungechunge lobusuku nobusuku ngabunye, izingane emndenini wakho zidonsa ikhadi elisha esitaki bese zichitha isidlo ziliphelelisa. Ngokuya ngeminyaka nenombolo yezingane ezidlalayo, iMannerIsms inikeza izinketho eziningi zokuvuza imikhuba emihle. Futhi ungaqhubekisela phambili umdlalo kumndeni wakho.

Emdlalweni, ake sithi izingane zakho zishukunyiswa ngumvuzo, zama ukunamathisela izitika kumakhadi enhlonipho afezwe ngempumelelo. Uma izingane zakho zithanda ukuncintisana phakathi kwazo, ungahlela imivuzo, njengokuthola ingane ejwayele ukusebenzisa indlela yalobo busuku ukukhetha ikhadi ubusuku obulandelayo. Ungadlala futhi ngokuqoqekile, ukuthi ingane yakho (izingane) ihlale ibukele imikhuba yasebusuku edlule nokugcina amaphuzu ephepheni.

# Ukudlala kunciphisa ukubelesela

Umdlalo uthatha ukuzikhandla ekufundiseni imikhuba yetafula. Futhi kuyisikhumbuzo kubazali ukuthi bahlole indlela abaziphatha ngayo. Abanye besifazane bayavuma ukuthi bawuthengele kakhulu amadoda abo lo mdlalo. Ijabulisa kakhulu izingane ukuthi zibambe abazali bazo ngephutha.

Ithimba lokudala umdlalo lihlala lilwela ukulithuthukisa ngokwamukela iziphakamiso ezinjengokuthi kuneminye imikhuba abantu abangathanda ukuyibona ifakiwe, noma uma umndeni wakho uqhamuke nendlela entsha yokushaya amagoli noma yokulandela inqubekelaphambili yezingane zakho.

I-MannerIsms yasungulwa ngabazali nezingane, yabazali nezingane. Ngokuzayo lapho usetafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa nomndeni wakho noma nabangane, ungahle ucabange ukuzama lo mdlalo omangalisayo, ofundisayo futhi omnandi.